Where to Start: You Already Have

The Mind as a Computer – Your Reality is What You Input

Your mind is like a computer—whatever you input is what it processes, and whatever it processes becomes your perceived reality. If you’ve ever heard people talk about The Matrix, what they’re really pointing to—whether they realize it or not—is this simple truth: Input determines output.

This isn’t some sci-fi conspiracy; it’s as basic as cause and effect. If you don’t drink enough water, you might get a headache. With a headache, the sun feels too bright, small things irritate you, and suddenly, your entire experience of the world has shifted—not because reality changed, but because your internal state did.

Now zoom out—this same process is happening on a much larger scale. Every conversation you have, every piece of media you consume, every belief you reinforce is programming your perception. The problem? Most of us are running on autopilot, unconsciously absorbing information at lightning speed, shaping a reality we don’t even realize we’re creating.

This is where You Before Me comes in—not as another rigid belief system, but as a mirror. A way to step back, observe the code that’s running, and—if necessary—rewrite it.

The good news? You’ve already started. By reading this, you’ve downloaded the three words into your mental framework.

Now, the question is: What will you do with them?

What to Do Next: Make It an Experience, Not a Task

This isn't about adding another to-do list to your life. It's about integrating YBM into your natural rhythm, in both active and passive ways:

Active Engagement (Hands-on Experience)

Observe the Trinity Everywhere – See the three components (Ego, Shadow, Soul) in stories, movies, books, religious texts, and philosophies. What patterns do you notice? see blog for examples.
Engage in Conversation – Talk about these ideas with a friend, journal your thoughts, or even reach out to me (Michael)—I’m not an expert, just someone who listens and reflects.
Wear the Symbols – When you wear YBM apparel, let it represent where you are in your personal mirror voyage that day. Let it remind you to observe rather than react.
Create Your Mirror Voyager Number – Use it to outline and track your journey—your struggles, realizations, and breakthroughs. Think of it as a personal reflection tool.

Passive Engagement (Shaping Perception Over Time)

Shift Your Inputs – Instead of consuming more external noise, read, listen, or watch something that mirrors your experience back to you. Less mindless scrolling, more intentional intake.
Pay Attention to Triggers – Instead of being swept up in reactions, start noticing: What does this reveal about me?
Let Change Happen Organically – The goal isn’t to force transformation, but to allow space for new connections to form without clinging to identity.

What’s Actually Happening?

When we begin to view our own story, we stop getting lost in the projections of others. In a world where information is moving at lightspeed, we need to counterbalance external intake with internal awareness.

Most people don’t take the time to pause and observe what’s shaping them—they just react, consume, and move on. But real integration happens in the space between input and response.

By engaging with YBM, you’re not just shifting the way you think—you’re rewiring your neurological pathways:

Scientifically – The brain is a predictive machine. The more you engage with an idea, the more your brain starts filtering reality through it. It’s like training a muscle—the more you observe, the more natural it becomes.
Spiritually – Ancient traditions emphasize the power of awareness and self-reflection. Whether through meditation, prayer, or contemplation, the goal is the same: to see clearly.

When you actively participate in your perception, rather than being passively shaped by external noise, your reality shifts.

The Key: It’s Not About What You Do—It’s About What You’re Not Doing

We often think change happens by moving the pieces on the chessboard—by doing more. But real transformation often happens in the space of not-doing:

When you engage with YBM, you’re not losing yourself in an identity—you’re reclaiming your ability to see.
When you create, reflect, or discuss, you’re not reinforcing unconscious patterns—you’re rewiring them.
When you observe your thoughts, you’re not blindly reacting—you’re choosing how to shape your mind.

This isn’t about manipulating your brain—it’s about letting your natural rhythm realign itself.

Final Thought: A Framework for You, Not a Competition with Others

YBM doesn’t exist in competition with other philosophies, religions, or teachings—it’s an ingredient that can be combined in infinite ways, depending on you.

It doesn’t fit into the intellect space—it belongs to the creative space. It’s not about finding an absolute answer but about experimenting with the variables and seeing what happens when you shift them.

It’s a framework, a metaphor, a mirror. The rest is up to you.

Where do you want to begin?